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[Nina85]

@Reha

I think after a certain age…sharing your life with someone else begins to scare the crap out of people…(pardon the French).

So, this wonderful life of his that he has down to science…a woman can potentially walk in and destroy it within 2.5 seconds (the wrong woman of course). This completely uncontrollable variable seems like too much of a risk for some men/women to take after a certain point.

**At the age of 25…you have nothing to lose because you really dont have anything yet. At the age of 40, he has a house, car, assets, career, investments, etc. He has everything to lose. The thought of putting your entire life’s hard work in a potential stranger’s hands would rattle me at 40 too. **

Usually people like that wait to meet the right person and then things just fall in place. Khud hi dimagh thikanay ajayenge. Fikar not.

Smart. And true…I know a divorcee, close to 40, who was thinking about getting married again. What she was hesitant about was exactly this. She had worked hard for everything she had and had learned to lived independently…and the possibility of ending up with someone with whom it didnt work out with and then losing what she had worked so hard with scared her.