I disagree to the very last word esp the 'for the sake of the child'
What impression would it cause on a childs mind mentally and socially to live with two parents who are constantly unhappy with themselves and with each other.
A healthy mind nourishes in a loving environment. That environment doesnot necessarily require the presence of two parents.
A single parent can provide a wonderful lifestyle to their children rather than dragging them through a miserable relationship.
However its upto the parents and their responsibility as adutls to make that change or transition of going from a married home to a single home as much smooth and easy for their kids as possible.
I m sorry...most of the time when I see your posts I kind of agree with them but I cant agree with this one. Did you go thru your parents divorce? I have actually gone thru one and I didnt care if my mom and dad were unhappy with each other but if they both would have been there for me when I was growing up it would have made a hell of a difference. If I was in the same situation I wouldnt care if I was misrable I will do anything for my kids.
I m sorry...most of the time when I see your posts I kind of agree with them but I cant agree with this one. Did you go thru your parents divorce? I have actually gone thru one and I didnt care if my mom and dad were unhappy with each other but if they both would have been there for me when I was growing up it would have made a hell of a difference. If I was in the same situation I wouldnt care if I was misrable I will do anything for my kids.
wow thats so selfish. Why should your parents go through a miserable life to give you a traditional family? I am not saying they shouldn't have loved you but they don't have to be together for that. You should have still been their first priority but I am sorry i just don't see why two people should stay together just because thats how most traditional families are.
wow thats so selfish. Why should your parents go through a miserable life to give you a traditional family? I am not saying they shouldn't have loved you but they don't have to be together for that. You should have still been their first priority but I am sorry i just don't see why two people should stay together just because thats how most traditional families are.
I m sure its selfish but again I will ask you the same thing. Did you go thru a parent's divorce? If not you dont know how it feels. Unless someone here has gone thru something like that they cannot imagine how it feels like. Dont you think its selfish for parents who know that they wont make it together but bring a kid into this world? Why should kids suffer for the mistakes that parents make?
Whatever I have written so far is all truth at least intentionally. If something is not true here that might be just because I could not recall it 100%. I am however trying to write nothing but the truth to the best of my recollection.
If I want I can really stretch it forever in order to write all the details but I am aware of the fact that it may become boring soap opera so I do fast forward it whenever possible.
To kill your curiosity of aminas, there is no suicide in the story :)
I am not a writer leave alone a fiction writer. It takes me 2-3 hours to write, edit and post one part. That is why I am slow in writing it.
At the end of the story I will probably reveal how am I related to the story. And can give the current status of each character if available.
Hmmm so you are recalling this story from obviously what happened to you. Man this must have been tough for you. But its nice to know that you are either Ali or another major role in the story...or else what would be the need to recall?
