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^^ how so?
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It doesn't matter how attractive or unattractive you are. A lot of girls are not taught how to socialize, especially with boys. It could be cause of sheltering, upbringing, culture, etc. It's usually these girls who end up on these sites.
Sometimes women on this forum confuse me about the whole point of going and living abroad.
They happily adopt foreign culture, values and thinking but when it comes to marriage they come looking for "ugly" desi men.
Even friends have to be desis.
Why can't they completely integrate into a country they are born and raised in and adopt to relationships with local people?
We see many men doing that. If women think they are so equal to men, why don't they also do it?
Wow… I looked up a matrimonial site after reading this thread and PCG is right, there are lots of pretty girls. It does make you wonder why they are still single.
I gotta agree with BBQ… a lot of girls are waayyy too demanding when it comes to appearance. Some of these girls may have wasted their years on sky high requirements. But I will also say that it applies to men as well. I’m sure there are guys out there who are like 6 feet tall and want the girl to be at least 5’8 
Seriously, have they not seen how tall paki girls are? I still hear, “very fair” as a requirement for the future bride
I don’t know if humble is the right word, but in my observation, if the girl is more sheltered/cultured/cautious of her reputation, she will try to avoid relationships before marriage.
I agree with this. Many parents have emphasized not being friends with the opposite gender so such girls have a harder time talking to or understanding guys. I agree with PCG that there need to be more Pakistani organizations or matrimonial sessions in the community.
Wow... I looked up a matrimonial site after reading this thread and PCG is right, there are lots of pretty girls. It does make you wonder why they are still single.
It wouldn't hurt anyone if you could tell the name of the website ;)
Purely in the name of humanity, compassion and concern for womankind :k:
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my bro's frnd went for a so called "very very hot paki girl" 24, 5'8, slim. she had everything what a common and every man wud want. I told my bro to set up an appointment wid her family and herself and lets go and see ;)
we went there. the website description written well modern ppl were so damn backward. ok, now the best part. the 5'8 girl comes walking in wid all that duputta and wearing anarkali and nice smile and thingy!!!!
she comes and sits in front of 3 of us. My bro's frnd was already going gaga on her! The girl spoke b4 anyone say anything, i wud like to speak to that guy. Hasan my bro's frnd was very happy and quickly said yes, sure why not. They both went in and came out of the room after not even 5 minutes.
He said, lets go. The girls parents and us were like, excuse me. plz abhi chalo. we went off and in da car i was begging hasan. he didnt say anything but he sure told my bro. my bro cud not say it so txtd me and said, she was a shemale and had to exit this country and just wants visa for europe n stuff coz the porn thingy wid such "items" are handsomely paid there
yuckkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!
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^ based on that incident (which seems made up to be honest), you have concluded that these 'Sh!t websites are total BS'? Awesome.
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not made up Jaanwar
My brother wud never lie and the girl was damn beautiful, nobody wud believe this
I knew already the guppies answer, was curious, but posted. Coz, after i did my homework came to know that such "kinds" do exist ;)
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Korn although i find that hysterical.
I do thing there are genuine people out there looking for their other half.
Like me for instance! I am educated to masters level. Traditional yes. And no shemale! I can assure you!
its hard for me to find the right guy - cos caste issues. And the fact that my family are extremely introvert.
So hence I have to try the website route! Again Korn - I feel for your brother. Bleurgggh!
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Pink Orchids,
I totally understand your situation and wish u good luck in ur search.
What i witnessed and hasan had to go through i can't even explain... the guy totally boycott every single party, occasion or whatsoever. He felt so bad and embarrassed i guess
Nonetheless, I hope u can find "the one" u r looking for :) whether its from a website, or practically!!
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Yeah me too!
Right now just taking each day as it comes. Mainly cos all the stressy issues I have to deal with.
You seem unhappy too. So i hope things changes for the better for you. :)
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korn666’s bro + PinkOrchids = Happy family 
See one single step solution that can works for both of you . :k:
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VERY FUNNY :P
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Ok come on now I can’t call your mom and tell her about korn’s bro . At least do something by yourself . 
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My parents want me to marry my cousin. So yeah. I don't think thats gonna work. And on top it - I do like someone else. SO yeah, my plate is pretty full.
Thanks for your humourous input though.
so which one of these statements are true ? :aq:
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I think women are very lenient when it comes to judging how pretty other women are. In the traditional Pakistani marriage market, for women, age is currency.
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NaMaan:
They both are. Firstly I had previously joined one those sites. Found a really decent down to earth guy.
Thing is - he turned out not to be rajput. Which my parents want. (they asked around in the community) And I said I want go ahead with it - but my parents are not adament.
Secondly they are now introducing cousin - from pakistan to marry.
Korn666 knows this as we talked in a previous thread I created.
So in terms of online site- I should say I used be on one - a matrimonial site. But now I am so annoyed I am not looking.
Parents are saying - keep looking or marry Cuz. They don't want me to marry this decent guy - just cos hes not the right caste.
I hope you now understand, I apologise for the confusion.
There are many girls on GS who grew up here and are happily married, did they go for fat greasy faced high school diploma gas station attendants? ... I dont think so
Nope!!!!! and trust me...i'm the last one to call myself a supermodel or anything...but my guy is pretty decent, and after reading threads like these, it makes me all that much more thankful for hiM!
It doesn't matter how attractive or unattractive you are. A lot of girls are not taught how to socialize, especially with boys. It could be cause of sheltering, upbringing, culture, etc. It's usually these girls who end up on these sites.
True that.