Re: Online friendship
good to hear that! ![]()
Re: Online friendship
good to hear that! ![]()
Re: Online friendship
**I personally admit to feeling more comfortable sharing intimate details about my life to someone online.. Why? Because I know deep down they’ll never blab to anyone in my immediate physical vicinity unlike real live people. Believe me, there have been people in my ‘real life’ I can say I wish I hadn’t met in person. I consider some of my online friends to be more dependable than my “real life” friends. Simply because you may never have met them in person doesn’t mean you don’t share a bond. I think the internet friendships are closer, because we are less reserved, shy, and inhibited to share our feelings, thoughts and emotions with others online. For me I would say, there’s some security behind this screen that makes me feel safe.
It’s true that you probably wouldn’t be able to ask one of your internet friends to borrow $100 in a time of need. But then atleast u can tell them why u need the money so desperately which at times u cant share with ur real friends unless that is ur one vvvv best friend.
Nice Usman may be ur friend feels more comfortable and can be HERSELF sharing and communicating with friends online than she does when logged out of cyberspace???!!!U said that u are very good friends and u are thinking to disconnect the friendship just bcoz she is reluctant to show her pic??? and that too when u say:** “I don’t care what she looks like, I mean I don’t care if she is beautiful or ugly”..**if thats REALLY the case and u REALLY MEAN what u r saying, then y to break such a gud friendship??..or u r confused that it matters to u or not??
..Even if she shows u her pic, what difference would it bring to ur friendship?? If showing pic really matters, then what type of friendship is that??![]()
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I can express myself more honestly online, therefore my online friends mean as much, if not more than my real friends.
Maybe she doesn't want you to recognize her if you see her somewhere...
Re: Online friendship
Thats a Faris talking ![]()
On top of that… even if you trust your friends never depend on them. ![]()
My on line friends and they know who they are… are few and far in number as my real life friends.
I am a friends friend and an enemies enemy.
For a man who claims blood ties with so many people friendship is not just a little thing.
But i value commraderie, brotherhood and kaumiyat… or nationalism as well as religion above all else when considering a friend… personality counts for little.
I have ugly friends and good looking ones but all are friends becuase they can stand with me as one.
Anyone who cannot stand on the same level isn’t even worth talking to.
Re: Online friendship
if you talk (on phone) to the friends you met online, does it still remain "online friendship" or its an upgrade ?
You want reassurance that she's a "real" friend...and the only way to prove that is for you to see a picture (which may not even be of her)?
You may have met people in real life....whom you've had face-to-face interactions with....whom you consider "friends".....and they turn out to be insincere. Did seeing what they look like guarantee their sincerity?
You claim that you don't have a romantic interest her and this is based upon her telling you that she's fat and unattractive. So, it's just based upon HER words/description of what she looks like. Now....what if she's being her own worst critic...and is not even half as bad as she has made herself out to be?
Also, I wonder if she herself only sees you as just a friend....or something a wee bit more than that?
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Uh oh! yeh bibi to ghusa kha gai hain ![]()
waise, aap ko kaheen jealousi to nahi ke I’ve got such a wonderful friend?
if you talk (on phone) to the friends you met online, does it still remain "online friendship" or its an upgrade ?
It is definitely an upgrade
Thanks for not killing someone here ![]()
mujhay jealousy q honay laggi??? …i just shared my views on ur post…i felt u r being unfair to ur friendship and i couldnt see someone being so insensitive towards such a good friend of them, as u say she is:snooty:
y r u saying itz an upgrade?? when still u cant see his/her face while talking on fone …
..that matters so much to some people ![]()
thanks for sharing your views by the way. It will really help me put some sense into my dumb friend.
It's true that you probably wouldn't be able to ask one of your internet friends to borrow $100 in a time of need. But then atleast u can tell them why u need the money so desperately which at times u cant share with ur real friends unless that is ur one vvvv best friend.
Will u believe many times i've sent money to my online friends and even that money was never returned but i did .... for you remaining post i just advise you not to get emotional on small things bcoz our life is too short and if we start taking every thing very deeply then it will become more short and uncomfortable for us.
Hope you got my point
Have you heard of Radio dramas? where even without a video, you can get the whole story ![]()
...It's true that you probably wouldn't be able to ask one of your internet friends to borrow $100 in a time of need
not really I had a VERY GOOD online friend and we helped each other many times not exactly with money but with many other material things too. like she was in Pakistan and her brother was visiting some relatives in US (I am talking late 90s when Credit Card were not common in Pakistan). I bought tickets for him for within US travel. He paid me back once he was here. She on the other hand bought few things whenever I was in an urgent need to drop at my ammi's place or nani's place (she lived near my nani's place).
friendship is not a drama where u want all the audience to watch it out..:aq:..
wowww..thatz my point…online friends are no less than real friends:k:
yeah but in very few cases…
fat, ugly and dumb..!!!if that friend of ur hears this all she is gonna
..i have all my sympathies for that poor soul:naraz:
Re: Online friendship
Very important to me, i build many extra-ordinary relationships in last few years. Some of them is and will effect my whole life.
It's that important..