Re: Fiance flirting online
I recently caught my fiance flirting on facebook, it involved him sending messages to random girls on how beautiful they are and how he would like to get to know them better. I dont know what goes on with the chat.
I confronted him about this and he said it was completely harmless, he never intends to meet them in real life and that he does it for fun only and loves me, and that Im blowing this all out of proportion and that is a normal male thing to do, and that sure I cant do it because he believes its not acceptable for females
Im kind of scared of marrying him now because i fear he will carry on this behaviour afterwards and really i dont like it. I dont know if he will change.
I would really appreciate the views of the male members of the board. I want to know if this is normal male behaviour, maybe he feels appreciated with these women? he wants to feel hes still got it? I compliment him all the time and make him feel loved so I really dont know what more i can do
I guess there is the factor that he is more attracted to these women than me, im not a vain person but i dont think im that bad looking to him otherwise he wouldnt have accepted the rishta
really i appreciate your sound advice
I’ll tell you this much–it certainly isn’t harmless. I wouldn’t call it a “normal” male thing to do, and even less normal for someone who is committed. I would also be worried if I were in your shoes. I don’t know your whole story, but my instinct would be to tell you to find someone else.