Well sire, I don’t see the point , you are trying to raise here …
There is nothing exclusive mentioned in dewan-e-Ghalib like it is in Mir Taiq mir ‘s poetry , where Mir made no secret of his attachments, and wrote of his passing fancy for Attar Ka Launda , the son of a perfumer and Memar Ka Larka , son of a mason….
Mir once wrote if my mind is not dodgeing me here ]
**Mir bi kia Sada dil hain hovay bemar jis k sabab **
Us hi Attar k londay se Dawa laytay hain
Where Ghalib’s poetry is written in much bigger dimesion ….. it depends how you see it …. It molds according to your own state of mind :D
He once said
Lay tu loooN sotay mein us k PaooN ka bosa magar
Ayse baaTon se wo kafir BadGumaan ho ja’aay gaa
What would ya say here , In light of your theory TLK bhai... chun k Kafir kaha hai tu muraad koi Londa hee hoogaa :)