Re: One piece of advice....
Just remember, your job that day is to glow with joy, to look pretty, to reflect on this wonderful new life you are beginning with this great guy. So when the appetizers don't come out on time, when that girl you hate is wearing something heavier than your outfit, when some other chick has a dupatta on her head and everyone says she looks like the bride, when your SIL says something that annoys you, when your mom won't stop fretting about the food, when it seems like no one is listening to the speeches, when those two aunties that hate each other are sitting next to each other, when the candles go out on one side of your stage, when the flowers seem to be more peach than the pink you requested, when the table linens are not the same fabric you wanted to go with the rug, when your father has a cold, when you realize you forgot to wear one of your rings, when that guy made a snarky comment about the dry kebabs, when the photographer is running late, etc. none of it matters in the long run. Just relax and enjoy the day for what it is. Weddings are rarely perfect; it's what keeps them interesting.