awww sgc, great advice!!
i agree with the dupatta thing and just make sure your dupatta is pinned veryni cely. sometimes the outfit and the girl are stunning but the dupatta isnt pinned properly and it ruins the look.
another thing: keep your lipstick with you the whole time. this was a problem for me on my shaadi day. my coordinator accidently had my lipstick sent back to my room and NO BODY was able to find it.
a big thing: focus on how you feel, look, etc on your day. the flowers , the decor, etc while they are nice they are not crucial. no one remembers a 100 centerpeice from a 50.00 centerpeice. do what you can afford, and make sure you shine because you are the star!!!!!! not those flowers. i think i spent way too much time obsessing over things like that, and while they were pretty they may have not been worth the sweat, tears, and money put into them.
try to eat very healthy a month or so up to the wedding date. lots and lots of water like gallons (i wish i did this) and fruits and vegetables and lean protein.
definately like sgc said: dont sweat the in laws stuff. things will come u-p and be annoying, etc. just let it go. remember its you and your hubby's day.
savor every moment of it. it will be the happiest day in your life (and sad too). be sure to hug your mom and dad, and siblings tight and make sure they are thanked for all their help.
oh one last thing. go ahead and go all out. its your wedding. so if you have a matha patti that you might chicken out of wearing DONT! ITS the only time in your life you can. i made this matta patti to go with my wedding set but chickened out at the last minute.
i regret that cuz when will i be able to wear it again! :)