As much I am against it, I don’t care if someone else does. I tell them how I feel about it but after that, I don’t care.
Anyways here is a situation that one of my buddy is facing since last 2 days and doesn’t know what to do.
He was googling about something and ended up at some other desi forums finds a girl posting all these craps about her boyfriend. Telling people she want to dump him but she thinks he is a mental case and will do something harmful so she is staying with him for the safety of her and himself.
He also finds out that she likes many other guy from her college and has been going on dates with them here and there without telling him.
I told him to confront this matter to her and ask her why she thinks all this about him but some of my other friends say just dump her before she dumps him. Me personally think that she has already dump him as her posting go back to about 6-7 months ago and he just talk to her, ask her questions and then move on.
One of our friends said that he should just start cheating on her (as in start dating other girls) until she finds out about that and when she confronts him, he pulls out about his postings.
What do you people think?
I know it is not THE case of the year that everyone should care about but I think some answers from you guys might help him decide where he stands.
Dump her. No need to be vindictive. But if he wants to be, just a tip if he makes it look like she wasn't good enough for him, it will bruise her ego for a long while. I am a vindicitive prick. So if he wants to hurt her, he should just go up to her, say he found someone better. She isn't good enough for him. Be short be curt and don't make it last more than 5 minutes. That should cause massive damage.
Of course if he is really really vindictive he can do it in public.
I asked him the same question.
She has all of her details in her profile.
She made notes for other guys, holding in her hands for their signatures.
She told him a few times that she goes to that site once in a while when she is bored.
She made topics regarding subjects and things they talked about in private.
That's her hand to the left-bottom or this guy's hand? Does your friend know this guy?
Gawd, I'm sorry, people are weird and twisted. I thought people here were messed up as it was. I keep forgetting that things get fobbier outside of gupland.
