Re: One can be partly but accurately known by...
sometimes, questions which are asked also include their answers within, to help the clueless pick up on them, yet, rarely someone can be that perceptive.
of course, human behavior is conventionally bind by the needs of times or of other people one is trying hard to please
but the better thing to do is be responsible for one's own questions, such as this: "can i stay?" and then mean it to get a good answer and then not become unpredictable, appearing to be unkind and confused.
in the world of ordinary people, this happens all so often that people think of lame questions which likely are to be answered just as lamely by people who do not value the person who asked the questions in the first place.
being true to one's own self is one way that can send a message to others, that they can be trusted. that their questions mean something to them first. no?
it may sound different, but the hope is to place emphasis on a true question – a given question, which when answered with certainty, is reciprocated with affirming certainty as an obligate.
and many people miss this point, on very crucial turning points in their lives.
infiniti, humans are social animals, so perhaps humans can be assessed based on their questions, but i agree that most humans are unpredictable which is not healthy for themselves.
aly_sam, your comment make very good sense.
words, thanks for the straight forward comment.
thanks, all once again. Dushwari