Re: one bad thing in the world that you think
dear Khumar,
boredom indeed can be a very bad thing for a woman who is bored and seeks attention by getting herself in risks. and a man who is bored and then he hunts for attention from a woman and when he is fully satiated in emptying his insecurity and zero self esteem, he leaves looks for another prey.
being self respecting will help such a person.
regarding the frustrations, your opinion is well taken.
for an example's sake what do think about this: why do you feel that your displaced frustrations give you the license to lash out on an innocent and unrelated target?
likely it is that you will not feel the sense of entitlement that your frustrations even, should make you become so uncaring that you lash out on others unwarranted. as a young woman, you must be able to handle that differentiation between immaturity and sharing concerns and so should every one else.
lumping own insecurities unfairly on others is a very immature thing to do on the part of the person who does that, be it a boy or a girl, a young woman or a man or an older person. that ought not to be tolerated and cannot be ignored simply because there are frustrations.
if there are personal or universal frustrations which people are preoccupied with, then people must take responsibility for their choices and their actions as well as their mentality and honesty or dishonesty in being sincere or not, in being well informed or not and in being caring or uncaring.
world is not built on an alibi. there is a purpose of life of humans, from a religious point of view and from existing-in-the-world point of view.
so humans should not look for alibis as well.
the formula to having a guilt free conscience might well be a sense of personal responsibility towards others and own self without being selfish or deceiving.
people who violate people's dignity, security, peace in other peoples' lives, emotions and personal respect while carrying out manipulative ploys against them, misusing their trust and humiliating and insulting them are sinners.
such people do not know how to act as grown up, i.e., responsibly. you cant say that they can do so, because they are frustrated.
best,
Dushwari
boredom. cuz a lot of stupid things and inventions come out not because of necessity, but sheer boredom. point to ponder ;)
i wouldn't call it immutarity. sometimes you just don't have things in your control, and you can't lash out at the thing that is making you upset. think about being upset at parents, or being stressed at work because of your boss, or worried about an upcoming big test. in such circumstances you just can't tell that person/thing look man i'm upset at you. stop it. but that frustration is in you. it's building up, and unfortunately if you don't have a proper outlet to let it out, you end up letting out that frustration at the wrong person. so it's not immaturity as you put it, just frustrations. when you're frustrated you don't see things as they are. it's like a veil or a cloud is in front of you, and all you can see is what's immediately in front of you. i would blame this cloud of frustration for a lot of problems in the world, such as the attitudes of aunties as sara put it.