CM, are you trying to help your 'friend' or tarnish his reputation? since you havnt exactly kept his identity discreet have you.
And is he really your friend who u r so concerned about or just another male guppie on gupshup.
I Agree.
CM, if YOU really do think of him as a friend.........then shouldn't you have been more discreet in your attempt to "help" out your "friend" ?