Nothing to say about your personal preferences because the word ‘Body’ is enough to understand your views about women.
But when intellectual people talk about building generations and if you see age sex pyramid of western countries you’ll come to know that they’ve very few young people as compared to old people. The birth rate is declining in many places rather increasing. Which means according to not me but their experts they’re afraid that they’ll hit a point where it would be impossible for them to reach a state of normal expected birth rate which eventually means there will be none of them alive after certain number of years.
Why that’s happening if you’re a man of knowledge you’d know that’s because of a culture created, nurtured by themselves not Allah or Islam which promoted things like ‘Family planning’ and ‘Having less kids’. But what they didn’t know was that they’d be killing their own selves because having sexual relationships without getting married or even in a married relationship with almost no children leads to the end of that culture that nation.
So if we all start following what you’ve just said that means men would be marrying older women since they’ve more mature minds and we’re talking about women in their 40s and 50s I presume because women younger than that I don’t consider old even science doesn’t. Which means most of the men would be marrying women who won’t be able to give birth at all. So hence no more kids in the world and eventually we’ll are gone, haha how cute my friend
I think that’s what happens when you invent your own ways but don’t follow nature and Islam. When Allah says marry your kids at younger age what’s to brag about here. It’s funny you like to be appreciated by others by saying something nobody would get offended by and ultimately forget what was the topic.
I thoroughly enjoyed the tirade of your sweet nothingness, but I do not speak as a messenger of God, or God himself. But I spoke about my OWN preference which are absolutely within the bounds set by the LAW GIVER. I would be pretentious if I said I don’t care about BODY of a woman. Physical attraction is important, but it doesn’t trump intellect. Ive had to make that huge HUGE compromise in favor of wisdom couple of times.
Finally, if you want to get back on topic, the discussion calls for opinion on older woman. So I could be 19 and my ruinous half could be a fat 20 year old diva. Its a relative position of one’s ego.
But your point about age distribution and reproductive demographies is valid in its own right. However, there are several contributors to such phenomenon beyond the scope of this thread’s topic and perhaps your intellect as well.
My sweet nothingness didn’t mean anything invective neither vituperative Mr foolhardy And of course you don’t speak for God or God himself. Nobody does that!
But when you specifically use the word ‘BODY’ in an utterance delineates a whole different meaning.
And when you mention the term ‘not a calender date’ it can also mean the way I perceived your jocose words.
Everything else I said was based on that I’m glad you find my ideas cogent.
true I read by 2070, Islam would be the major religion. Muslim produce 3.1 kids/ woman compared to christian 2.7/woman.
On topic, I like older women, like not grannies or anything but 2-3 years is good. They are so much mature. Only mature girls of younger age I found were educated - so I think that kinda plays a role too
That would be an amazing world, trust me. But unfortunately we can only imagine that. The reason why I said that is we Muslims around the globe are scattered into stupid sects, ideologies and even extremism in some cases. Everybody has it’s own Islam.
The term moderate Muslims and if you’ve heard of that means Muslims who merely carry a Muslim name. That’s the type of Muslims we are populating around the globe.
When people like these will be left on earth it can never be a place free of deceit, lies, human trafficking etc you mentioned. Because even a lot of Muslims now a days feel that Islam is outdated.
But the fact of the matter is it’s not, it was came for all the times to come and when all the Muslims will hold on to true Islam. They wouldn’t even have to be left alone in order to create a perfect world.
I don’t know why people say that. Age is definitely more than just a number. With age comes wisdom, humility, patience etc. Even though heart wants what it wants, but for a relationship to survive mental maturity comes with age for most people (exceptions are always there).
I agree…to an extent. If age were just a number then you wouldn’t find age-range brackets on documents such health insurance and other things. With age..come changes in your body…and your health …and your thought process…and priorities. So, it’s not just a number with absolutely no bearing or impact whatsoever. But if two people can look past the age difference and if they have the dedication to remain sincerely committed to one another despite the trials that can come with having a large age difference…then more power to them…that’s what matters most. The tricky thing is that only time will tell if both people can remain unaffected by a large age gap…you don’t know that going into a marriage…and I guess that can be said for every marriage.
And of course you don’t speak for God or God himself. Nobody does that!
