Re: Older man marriage…
As for the man’s first marriage, what I know is that the ex wife and him just didn’t get along. She came from a family that wasn’t as well off and spend a lot of his money on fuzool stuff. She didn’t want to have kids. Now, of course we only hear one side of the story, but the guy has been divorced for very long now, never remarried. He says that he didn’t have “feelings” for anyone all this while and was pretty content with his situation until my cousin came along and thoughts of marriage crept in.
I also warned my cousin that maybe he’s looking for a younger girl so he can have kids…just playing the devil’s advocate here…dunno.
Maybe he does truly love her. Anyway, she did ask around about his first marriage and people don’t have much to say. It’s the “oh they were very different” that she’s heard of mostly.
Whatever the reason is, 24 years difference is just too much in my dictionary to give a nod.
Yes Yes, I know there are exceptions and guy may be genuine, Yes I know age is only a number and you are as old as you feel but if I see life ahead, I see many complications…