Re: Old people
I would definately consider doing all that for my parents or inlaws- this is where Allah really tests us to see if their children are there for them when they are in need of assistance. I would want someone to take care of me when i get old and cannot depend on my hands and feet.
Tossing them in a nursing home is pretty much saying we dont want to deal with ur responsibilities-- its way too much for my everyday life. Thats my opinion. There's only little time u will spend with them- they wont be by ur side forever- cherish each moment with your parents.