The whole concept is sickening in my eyes. How in the world can you put away the people who have spent their life breaking their backs for you, despite getting their hearts broken time after time? When you have been ungrateful, or taking them for granted... They never loved you less or didn't feel like not taking care of you anymore.
To take care of them in their old age is the LEAST of what we can do for them.
My grandparents live with us and i could never ever even think of putting them away... They've been with us since forever... and i don't want anyone else to take care of them while i'm alive.
I started crying when I watched that video...how can people walk away from their old and majboor parents like that? How? In logon ke dil nahin toot te hein?
^ i knowww.. :( it's all their ego PSquared i guess. Aur kuch log apnay spouses ke dubao mein aisay faislay karte hain. Unfortunately there are people who even consider apne parents ki khabar lena a formality... :( Allah humko is tarha se hone se bachaey.
So I got one question for Y'all........................
If you had a choice between taking care of an "abandoned" Baby...............
Or an abandoned......Old Person............
Which one would you choose???...............be honest!
I know ones parents are totally a different matter.............but they are not your spouse's parents
if u think this way then someone els who will marry into ur family will think the same... u shud treat ur spouse's parents just as u wud treat ur own. only then ALLAH will tke care of ur parents too inshaALLAH
..and about the abandond baby or old person... both !as they r both helpless and in need of help...'to save one life is like saving the whole of humanity'...and pray tht ALLAH gives us all more strnght to do gud and to stay on this path inshaALLAH.
*Ju burhy apny bachon sy kissi sorat khush nahi hoty na onhin rehny daity hain ayson ky liy old homes hi sahih hain.
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Lagta hai tum bhi aisi he aulad ho, laikin khud bhi old home mein janay kai liay tyar rehna. How can you say this about any parent? Either you are not a good parent or not a good child.
Has it ever occurred to anyone that maybe some of those parents have been thrown in old homes because they deserved it? They were abusive or mean or something?
Just because someone is old doesn't mean they're all kittens and balls of yarn.
No doubt all of you (myself included) have had great parents and cannot imagine doing it to our own parents ever) but not everyone has the same experiences.
you are making it sound like Old homes are some kind of punishment. I disagree. I think old homes (at least in USA) provide a quite dignified place for senior citizens to live and enjoy that part of their life.
you are making it sound like Old homes are some kind of punishment. I disagree. I think old homes (at least in USA) provide a quite dignified place for senior citizens to live and enjoy that part of their life.
Well people here seem to think old home = dungeon and jail
anyways, my point was.....not every child who throws their parent in old home is a monster.
