Elegance just gave me another idea bout old friends and them moving on aur hum stuck rehte hein same tym fase me.
So m one of those ppl who stays in the same time era my high school friends they have moved on with their lives they dun even think bout how we used to b close friends and shared things with each others or wht funny bachkana things we used to do milker …
but i think bout tht stuff and it hurts me when i c my friends moving on and not thinkn or practically just whiping tht memory of golden high school yrs…
i have my 25 cihld hood friends as i have mayb told this b4 we r friends since we were in like 1 gr and now i am married have 2kid one is getting married this dec INSHALLAH!! and one well shes single still and they both r all the way n pakistan but still when we talk on phne as i call them every week sum times twice a week and when lst time i visited them n pakistan we were sitting chating laughing just like 13 yr old girls and teasing each other…we have not moved on then y others???
have v not moved on cuz we all r spacial for each othr and want to stay tht way and the ppl who have moved on are becuz they have no emotional feelings attached to those moments, i have…
Well, I think it's not like the old friends have no emotions or they forget the memories associated to the past (including our friendship) but the thing is when the time moves on everyone has to set or change his/her priorities and preferences. Time never stays the same, it has to be changed. Many of my friends have been lost in their own lives, and problems that they can't find time to come at my home like before, most of them have now become engaged and their priorities are their fiances and inlaws etc etc :whistling. Even we are lost in our other activities of life and maybe they too think about us in the same way.
so, it's not like they replace us but yes their prefernces are changed
oh boy this is too blue to digest and read … therefore ta ta kaaaaaaaaaaay, on 2nd thought…
Though Elegance covered it all beautifully as always…
Cheer up Jia. Atleast u made those memories when they were there. Sometimes we wish things last forever, but just enjoy and live the moment atleast you have something to look back to and smile
see i had a reeeeeeeeel best bud while growing up, we lost touch I came here, he stayed there… and just last yr i heard from him when he was getting married. We really hit it off after that news, catching up in a weekend of continuous chat :halo:
The feelings are all there, though it may not be visible to us, since its only noticeble when they’re expressed out loud or delivered in written but sometimes we just are too busy to acknowledge them to one another Jia.
I read these lines somewhere long long time ago but still they are in my mind and they work too
If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reasons he couldn’t stay, don’t cry too much…just be glad that your paths are crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while
I know memories are always there and we can’t escape them.
kaaaaaaaaaaay, on 2nd thought…