oki u girls particularly married ones :D

I was just wondering yesterday well basically about myself but thought no harm in asking u as well :smiley:

I don’t do nothing in my house except cooking at times, cleaning my room and cupbord once in a while and thats about it :slight_smile:
Now when I cook, I might be cooking the dish upteenth time but I still like to ask my mom kitna namuk daloun, kitni mirchien and blah blah. Kinda mey ney poora ghur sur pey uthaiya hotta hey. According to my mom mey roola ziada dalti hoon kaam kum kurti hoon :bummer: Now I can bet there are other girls out there like me.

So when u girls got married did you easily adjust or u made a mess in susral too? For one am sure i will :devil:

Hope you understood my question :stuck_out_tongue:

Re: oki u girls particularly married ones :smiley:

sister u arent alone :dhimpak:

I won't be living with in-laws...and I'll turn my huby into a heath freak..only boiled/grilled khana...then for those special occasions I can whip up a few goodies I know...else run to a recepie book :D

Re: Re: oki u girls particularly married ones :smiley:

yesyes

fantaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa i am ashamed of u :o

even i know how to cook :blush:

fanta.. dunya taraqee kar gayee hay and u're still worried about the ratio of namak..

i have one word for you.. Shaaan

buy the masalas.. read the recipe on the dubba and follow it religiously.

Pakistani "Cook" Abroad

Well just before I got married I had my mother teach me to cook 'goshth' and other basic meats. I was a vegetarian previously for 7 years. But I started eating meat again a couple years before marriage. My husband eats nothing else other than meat. His mother also shared her recipes with me. We didn't live with my in-laws but I spent a lot of time there and still do. So whenever I go there, I cook. Her sons tell her that I cook better than her and she says,"Good, then pahbi will cook for you now"

It wasn't easy to adjust to their style of cooking. My mil is a spice freak and I'm a little on the milder side. She is always sprinkling some sort of pepper or hot sauce on the dishes I cook. But my husband is happy and I guess that's all that matters. Besides he doesn't want variety ie. vegetables, so it's pretty easy to just cook the same dishes over and over. I get a lot of practice!!

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*Originally posted by PakistaniAbroad: *
fanta.. dunya taraqee kar gayee hay and u're still worried about the ratio of namak..

i have one word for you.. Shaaan

buy the masalas.. read the recipe on the dubba and follow it religiously.

Pakistani "Cook" Abroad
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Abhay...and what woudl happen if your old lady were to use Shaan toeh? You'd be telling her..."even I can cook that"

You ladies have to masala-fy you with our own mix of spices :D

Salaam.
Whe i got married with my husband i
could not cook meat and chicken and othere dishses.
After my marriage when i came back to Holland my
sister in law teach me how to cook every thing,
And now i make everything.
So when my Hubby went to Holland i can cook
everything.
Khanna pakanna itne mushkil nahi hai asaan hai.
If you wanna learn something very much you
will learn it soon but if you don't wanna learn with
all your heart then it is difficult.

Nilu.

Know what? This thread wasn’t suppose to be about khana pakana :rolleyes: It was about the mess we create as our right in Amma’s house. Can we continue to do the same in susral? :snooty:

Hi Fanta.
I don’t think you can live like that at ur sasural
like you use to do coz you have many responsebilities.
And its very different i think i don’t live with my
parents in law i just live with my hubby.
But i if you married it is different.

Nilu

Re: oki u girls particularly married ones :D

fanty i have been doing things for myself....... since i was 13......... but finally in 10 years i have learnt enuff....... allah ka shukar hai....

:crying: y can’t we juz stay kunwari fo eva n live wid out ammi abbu *sniff

i don’t wana get married…m tooo childish fo these kindza responsibilities…

phoot phoot ke roing

You can say that again and again and again!

hum ghalatiyaan karnay main aap kay saath hain :p