yeah! height does matter to some extent.. i am 5'8" and always wanted my husband to be taller than me (ideally 6 feet).. my husband is 5'9" and i am MashaAllah very happy with him.we look good together.. i was nevr into love marriage kind of thing so when my parents accepted my hubby' proposal (keeping in view his other qualities ) i said ok..but a husband smaller than wife,spec if the difference is too much, looks really funny and a big NO NO, atleast for me..
there is a concept of "JORI", u see, tou Jori achi honi chahiye :)
^ concept of 'JORI', like all other concepts, is in one's head and can vary widely depending on personal preferences, cultural norms...and last but not the least, fetishes.
Hmmmm it really doesn't matter. Love and understanding should matter.
Age also doesn't matter. Our Prophet (PBUH) married Hazrat Khadija when he was 25 and she was 40. We as muslims are suppose to follow him and there is no issue in marrying a guy younger than you.
Height matters to me. I'm a tall lady (5' 11") and my hubby is 6' 2"...... you can regurgitate the usual cliché that 'if you loved him it wouldn't matter and love conquers all and BLAHBLAHBLAH... but i just don't think i could live with a short man.... it would be strange. Full stop.