thats why you wait for the smile back from her or a sort of acknowledgement before u go and ask for coffee
Yes indeed. But if she frowns instead of smiling, then one will not even ask for coffee anyway!
What if she miles as a good gesture only...Not every 'smile' is welcoming you know. Just a thought.
I think there was a skit at SNL a while ago, where this man goes to a girl and said:
Something like that:
You are so good looking, can we get together. I spend some money on you and then we go to my place and do the "deed"?
He got slapped, and she said "you pervert! Who do you think I am?"
Next Skit: Same man goes to her, asked her the name, then said how about we go to a nice dinner, we talk, then a movie, then we go to my place, and watch something on TV then we do the "deed"...
She said "that's so wonderful and romantic"