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connie, I wont bother saying he might be caught up in an emergency or something. If he didnt show up , his loss. Maybe he wasnt all that to start with. Better find out what hes like now, then later. The jerk.
Plus he is supposed to call. hes the one who didnt show up.
You alright hon?
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Naah I'm not making excuses for him, the fact that he didn't call back shows he doesn't care.
It also indicates how little I mean to him. That's what hurts.
It's okay. He's no jerk, he has the right to refuse, but he sure didn't seem like he wanted to refuse when we spoke, it sounded like a done deal, no hesitation nothing.
Yeah I'll be okay, I'm used to it, I should've known actually.
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Don't make a huge deal out of it. I think an SMS won't hurt to put your mind at ease. Maybe he'll sms you back and not call you back if he's in a meeting. I think it will avoid the awkwardness you will feel when you see him again if you sort of 'bury the hatchet' right now.
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Aww connie its alright. Dont feel hurt. We'll see what he has to say about this. But come now some people are just not very thoughtful...dont be hurt ok. We all know you, and you're not to blame. Dont be so hard on yourself. If it wasnt meant to be, so be it. Hes not the only guy, there are plenty who care about you. Come on cheer up. If he doesnt call you soon, just ask him whats up. Might as well. And theres nothing wrong with being honest. He should realize what he did was stupid.
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Rukh I called him at 5:30, if he was gonna go into a meeting he woudl have told me, but he didn;t, it wasn;t important enough to tell me, so why should I let him know his presence is so important for me?
This was just a casual thing to start with (very important for me but he doesn't know that), I'm not going to make a big deal out of it.
In fact, I'm gonna be real cool about it all.
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Don’t just assume LK chanda 
I’ve learned the hard way not to just assume what the other person is thinking.
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Goli maro aisi movie ko...jismein movie janay sey pehlay call karni parti hai...lol
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LK even if he didn;t show up you should have gone to the movies with a girlfriend, so when he talks to you, you can atleast honestly say u had great fun even without him! Don;t call him. He should have had the courtesy to atleast let you know he couldn't make it and since he didn't, let him call you. Silly man.
Don;t be hard on him though. Maybe he really really didn;t get a chance to call you. It all depends upon his upcoming phonecall. Let's see what he has to say.
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okay i had a premonition it wasnt going to go right…if u were going to ask sb out for the first time, at least do not make it a same-day date…its easier for reluctant parties to back off with some proper excuses if u give them a day or two…that way there is less risk that sb wont turn for the actual thing…
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I still think an sms won’t hurt anything. If he lies to you about a meeting or something coming up then you would know never to bother w/ him again.
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hugs
LK, that's the thing with planning something the same day you purpose the idea, it sometimes doesn't work out, you shouldn't take that too serious. It could be that it was too short of a notice for him. From what you have written about him he seems like a decent guy, give him the benefit of the doubt, there must be a reason as to why he hasn't called.
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True, but not calling is a sign of well, I dunno, I;m not gonna over analyse, I just know that I’m not going for a movie today, maybe some other day.
The fact that this was gonna be a sneaky thing (my folks don;t know) i think in some ways I;m happy i didn;t go, I did tell God that if he thought I did something wrong here to just not let this thing happen. So I;m thankful in a way, I;d rather do this with my folks consent.
I;m not being negative about this guys, I got the ball rolling, it may just stop right today, or it could get better for me.
Sorry the assumption that “he doesn’t care” was tyed out between holding back tears, but I don;t want my mascara to run.
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Yep thats what I’m going to believe coz it’s not like him, needless to say a call to say “i’m not coming” woudl have been appreciated.
but guys are such idiots, they forget, I know, they just do, not coz they don;t care, but because they just forget.
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LK screw him, take me instead. i am such a perfect date 
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Femme I know what you mean, i was gonna go meet up with mal1k and Pakor if this didn;t turn out right, but they changed teh venue for the meet and it’s waaay to far off.
Ghuail - I know, I had that premonition too, hehe, I dunno what came over me, i just asked, he sounded happy i asked, and that made me happy, i think I’m just gonna live off that happiness for a while.
Like I said this coudl actualy turn out to be a GOOD thing, yes I’m a bit hurt coz he didn;t call, but that fone call today made me happy, extremely happy.
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Sure suroor 
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aww …who cares about him.. go out and have a triple fudge ice cream and ENJOY!!
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take a girlfriend, watch hitch , eat jamoca almond fudge from baskins and have fun larki! or better yet.. stay over a friends place.. rent movies and have a movie marathon night. me n my girlfriends watch atleast 4 movies through out the night :Dlets see if u can beat that 
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I;m not allowed to go out, or stay over at firend's places, I;m supposed to be having an extra class today, so I thought of bunking and going for a movie. :)
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No appetite 