re: ok bad MIL stories [merged]
Usually photographers give you a CD that holds every single picture they took that evening.
You can print a separate album for your family from the CD...one that will be more suited to their taste and expectations.
Overall, this isnt that big of a deal. There will be plenty of things that will come up later that will be much bigger then this, save your tears for battles worth fighting.
If you fight, argue or get upset over the smallest of things...pretty soon your tears will hold no value.
Rule of thumb: choose your battles wisely