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Lifestyle Relationships
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^go back where u came from, sick black thing

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Ami, CM and Jaanwar have all begun to sound like multi-nicks now.. single track larkay!

LAWN SHOPPING 2013
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Sweetheart you know you enjoy it that is why you are always responding to our statements.

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There is a difference between somebody who is good looking and somebody who is attractive to you. If you can't stand waking up every wonderful morning and seeing him, then you need to make some decisions. Maybe there is more to it than the fact that you don't think he looks that great. Always is.. if it's holding you back from such an important decision in your life.

And the religious vs non religious, takes more effort to compromise than some people tend to think.

Last but not least, if people ever say it's either looks or personality, they are in denial. Everyone wants a perfect package.

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well i would love to marry opposite sex more religious then me but not extremist in religion as well.

well if ur not religious then without extremism u should be religious, bcoz at last everyone have to be answerable to Allah for his/her deeds. and that is also our first responsibility and therefore must be our first priority. one must push him/herself towards religion by waging a war aginst the shaitan in himself/herself and that is the only way to become more religious and it is also Jihad-e-Akbar as well.

wish you best of luck

:)

~AV Lassi and Paraatha break April 2013~
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nadz i dont know whats ur problem.....babe u need to grow up...coz u are engaged to him , he is nice, educated and ok looking and thats absolutely fine if he is not the most attractive person in the world....all it matters is if he cares abt u....thats the most important thing that i would go for..and since he told u that u r pretty and other stufff he will always care abt u and will be thank ful to God to have such a pretty wife ;) and u should be thankful to God that he is religious ....may be he will take u to janat with him lollll:D but seriously as long as he is not ugly looking ......ok looking is finee.....once u are in nikah with him ....thats the strongest bond u will automatically start loving himmm...

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Ahem.

Bathsheba stop trying to deprive the girl from her natural birth rights.

If a guy has the selfish privilge to go for only a girl he finds 'pretty'/'attractive', why has a shoudl the girl not have the same?

If a guy is thankful to God to have a pretty wife. hasnt the girl got the right to demand and be thankful for a pretty/good-looking husband?

Obviusly after marriage whoever you a re married to whether they are unpretty, black, fat short, limbless, brainless, you have to submit to love them, otherwise you wouldnt be married to them.

DuH?

So stop trying to use this as an excuse to deprive somone of thier Unisex rights!

Just cos we had to comprimise with ourselves or our partners looks doesnt mean we make the whole world do that too!!

Everybody likes beauty.

And look at P.M.s post for the relgious aspect. See Theres equality in rights for both sexes!

And if you are talking about primely going for guys that just care for you.

Well in that case all guys here, C.M, Jaanwar, A.P, PM, ofcourse so much care immensly for the buff gals , does it mean you hand all of yourselves over to us??

And waisy what happned with your guy.

Hes also very nice, caring, kind as you said. So he furfills the criteria u advised to Nadz.
Why are you not accepting him then!

Double standards like innit!

History Mystery- Part 3
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Still doesn’t change the fact that u’ve begun to sound like multi-nicks :halo:

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Looks do matter.......its the looks and physical attraction that sustains a relationship in the first few years while u iron out the details and get accustomed /adapt/compromise watever u wanna call it on other aspects of that person an that relationship !

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I think more than anything personality is what matters, of course you ahve to be attracted to them some what. I think once you get to know this guy (you may already know him well enough) you like him for him, and autmatically im sure you will start finding him attractive.

For the religious part, I think both of you guys will have to compromise, as he knows before he is marrying you, you are not as religious as he is and you know he is religious. My point is basically he cant force you to be someone else, nor can you do the same to him. You both have to discuss and talk and feel comfortable around each other without judging.

Inshallah both you of you guys will have a good influence on each other, and both benefit from this relationship.

Hope all that made some sense!

random_girl

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You meant PIND + I.

Where did you come from and where are you living now? You asking him to go back and want to live here that is so funny.

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**both. now find me one! :blush: **

yes y not? as long as he let me be the drunkard i am!

u can not force religion onto urself! period. if im not comfortable with him being more religious then bye bye baby!

ummmmm hello mr.cosmetic surgeon!

fruit loopssssssssssssssss… :woho:

The Hi/Bye Thread
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ok Amir
Ahem.

Bathsheba stop trying to deprive the girl from her natural birth rights.

ok now i m not doing anything to deprive her...yes thats her natural right to choose a good looking man but as i can picture she is a good looking girl as she mentioned and i m sure that her man is not bad looking either ....but u know what people dont care for the things they get easily sooo thats probably what the problem is....otherwise i m sure she wuldnt even accept the proposal..if he was bad looking..

If a guy has the selfish privilge to go for only a girl he finds 'pretty'/'attractive', why has a shoudl the girl not have the same?

If a guy is thankful to God to have a pretty wife. hasnt the girl got the right to demand and be thankful for a pretty/good-looking husband?

Obviusly after marriage whoever you a re married to whether they are unpretty, black, fat short, limbless, brainless, you have to submit to love them, otherwise you wouldnt be married to them.

DuH?

So stop trying to use this as an excuse to deprive somone of thier Unisex rights!

Just cos we had to comprimise with ourselves or our partners looks doesnt mean we make the whole world do that too!!

Everybody likes beauty.

And look at P.M.s post for the relgious aspect. See Theres equality in rights for both sexes!

And if you are talking about primely going for guys that just care for you.

Well in that case all guys here, C.M, Jaanwar, A.P, PM, ofcourse so much care immensly for the buff gals , does it mean you hand all of yourselves over to us??

And waisy what happned with your guy.

Hes also very nice, caring, kind as you said. So he furfills the criteria u advised to Nadz.
Why are you not accepting him then!

*Double standards like innit! *

ok there is nothing to be double standard about yes i have made up my mind to marry him.....and probbaly in a few weeks will be getting engaged soooooo duhhhhhhhh lollll......yes he is nice caring and i m going for it...;)

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Oh rite i didnt mean it tha way actually

Yeh i did remember that u meant, that aslong as the guys ave looking then she shdunt complain.

and yeh ofcourse thats true, if he was terrible then she wudnt hv accepte dhim in first place.

Yeh i do agree to that,Nadz, look u have acepted him, it meanes hes 'ok' looking, then why r u now having double thoughts.
r u bored of him now or somthing?

u know tomrow u may get fat and ugly and that after marriage, how wud u like it if he mumbld n about the same.

Im sure if he sfat or somthing start forcing him to go the gym hell get fit and sexy in no time.
and tell him to maybe shave his beard and get a nice hair-cut.
a lot of good-looking guys wud look geekish/ungoodlooking if they had the geekish get-up ur fiance has of shaved hair but no shaved beard etc.

any way....yeh my post was still relevant... but thats if hes really is 'butter's.

either the truth is u chose him now so shudnt complain.

and to bathshaeba...

yeh i thought u were not happy with the guys s.active past, did uget him checked for s.t.ds?

I mean ifprevious s.relations is not much of an issue for girls, and
if he can get away with such pasts...then why should we other guys bother restraining ourselves?

hmm

Timepass - March 2013
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amir…
well for some families past relations are a problem..so please stay away lollll…:halo:

nadzz…babe sometimes i feel the same gets bored from people and want to change my mind but…be happy and plan for ur future…:wink:

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nadz I am married already (shhhhhhhh but i don't want to shout out to the world about how nice he is and how faithful he is, because I won't be able to say what I want to say NEXT)...

If I were to marry all over again ! Then I would marry for MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY....

SO RIGHT NOW - I wouldn't be banging my head on this computer screeen trying to finish up my WORK!

Hubby's niceness - well I get to see that before and after 9-5 anyways - BUT IN BETWEEN I WOULD HAVE HAD SOME SPARE TIME FOR ME MYSELF AND I!

Chaand Ek Umr Se Safar Men Hai
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True Money is Important

Sabhi Rishton Ko Jab Parkha........