ok since my wedding is coming up, i am eating less and trying to lose a dress size. and my family knows this as in my aunts etc. but they are also calling us over for a pre-wedding davat, which is nice. but they never let me eat less. they just pile the food or theyl say issi kuch bi nahi hoga they see my plate of salad and start with the lectures, now that im eating less more people are staring at my plate than ever before..its soo anooying…and then you get the are you on a diet question dieting kari ho even though they goddam know i am but they love asking in front of 20 other people who then also begin to stare ar u and ur plate…and then they say acha thoraaaaaa sa khalo its like wtf is the point ` i hate going,but mum makes me goo…god me so angry …got another one on saturday.,.
plus i made the mistake of actually eating last week, and then later aunts were like meethey chawal bi thora khalo, waisey tumne biryani khalii to yeh bi khalo kuch nahi hota
so because i eat a lil biryani for their sakes, now they think im not on a diet and will openly ask in fron t of 20 people acha dieting nahi kari
with my mum i always found it hard to diet but a year and a half ago i was very determined to lose the access weight i had gained and seriously… it was awesome! now people ask me what i did.. so its good :k:
Please do NOT pay attention to anything they say and politely tell em you are full and really can't eat anymore every time you are in such a situation. There is nothing wrong with trying to eat less infact portion control is one of the best things you can do to lose weight.
You know you need to create a diversion.
Say when we (friends) were doing nothing after graduation and where ever we went aunts and uncles buged us to death about our futures. Just then we developed this technique we would stop shaving for many days.
Now when you show up on wedding/dinner with what looked like bread in process. NO one would talk about any thing but “whats wrong with you , are you gowning beard etc ”
SO do same Make a truly strange hairstyle or some thing. You will be surprised.
