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reminds me one of cristina auguilira songs 
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Seriously girls you are AGAIN overthinking.
Sex is like air. You only miss it when you are not getting any.
Whether a person does or does not have sex before marriage is never an issue. It never traslates into fidelity or honesty. Virgins can be bad too. You might wanna ask the person, you being virgins offcourse, why did he/she had sex? All of us are different and have different ways of living a life. Doesn't mean we are all right or wrong. Yes, sex before marriage is wrong but it does not mean that the person is evil.
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And this guy is like the Ullema of GS. And then people wonder how easy it is to ridicule Islam. Look who is representing it.
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No, again, you misunderstand what I’m saying. Notice, in my description of these sort of men, do I explicitly ONLY talk about having sex before marriage? No.
Its the kind of constant behavior a guy exhibits and his intentions behind his interactions with females - on a long-term level - that you need to look at to understand my point.
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Its the kind of constant behavior a guy exhibits and his intentions behind his interactions with females - on a long-term level - that you need to look at to understand my point.
So where does the Ode to the Paksitani Woman come in this equation? Frankly speaking its nothing but a male bashing thread. Very General with little or no specific point. Pakistani male doing rude things? Things like what they have sex before marriage and then marry a virgin. Yeah, that's a common partice. What other behavior like they look at Pakistani girls in rude manner. Pakistani women are the most respected by their husband, brothers and father. You are not looking at that.
Get some thing specific than talk. Otherwise it is nothing but an overthink. That's it. If you or your friend are so frigging upset with Desi guys or Pakistani male then why not marry some other nationality. Why not? Answer this? Get a Muslim guy of other nationality if there is problem with Pakistani male. Its a simple question.
Last but not least, when you or friend says:
What a crappy society our Pakistani society is.
Clearly means how biased an opinion could be.
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Pakistani male doing rude things? Things like what they have sex before marriage and then marry a virgin. Yeah, that's a common partice. What other behavior like they look at Pakistani girls in rude manner. Pakistani women are the most respected by their husband, brothers and father. You are not looking at that.
So a woman should only be respected by her family members and not by anyone else? Family respect is sufficient? Community respect is not needed?
Maybe in a society where women are not allowed to leave their homes, buddy.
And no, I think you've left out quite a bit. You boys know much better what playthings you think women are. I've seen and heard about the things that Pakistani guys will do to get themselves satisfied. And its sick.
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Pakistani women are not respected in their community? Is that what you are trying to say? I believe when you have a country like Pakistan where Women have progressed in various fields of life such as politics, education, economy, services, health and many more. It means that they are supported in their cause for a better living and also respected. You can't get that much of a status and be dis-respected. The Pakistani women of today enjoy a better status than most Islamic and Middle Eastern women.
You are talking about some Pakistani guys who think women as objects. I can speak for all guys here when I say that we don't respect those guys either.
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pakistani women arent all that stupid yaar …they cook oily curries, cholesterol-laden, meaty dishes, fatty parathas and omelettes for their wonderful hubbies and wait for the “Healthy food” to work its magic slowly in his body…hubby dont know and dont care what goes in his food… 
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just curious what are these things that pakistani men are doing? and how are they different from your average american male?
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^ I dont' think PCG is married hence her crusades!!!!
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PGC, Not all men are like this, actually the minority make the whole gender look bad but truthfully many pakistani men are caring, loving and make wonderful husbands brothers fathers and sons. I can just look at my own family and never have it any other way:)
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Well in ur original post, yes u were…u said “husbands” many times…when u were commenting on women cooking and cleaning, and if the husbands will be getting any sex tonight, etc., etc., u were talking about how “modern” girls can’t please their husbands, weren’t u? And later that married men were unappreciative of their wives…that’s wot this whole thread is about isn’t it.
Now, if u want to go into single guys then that’s another thing, and totally different from ur original post. Guys who are “awara gards” and who sleep around before they settle down…ok some of these guys cud be total pratts…but when u go for a rishtaa, ur not gonna bring up ur whole sexual history…who knows if the “homely” girls back home r really virgins or not…sometimes, young ppl (girls n guys) do stupid things and mess around…but that doesn’t mean they r horrible ppl or r not gonna be good husbands n wives…
I’m not sure wot ur trying to say in this thread anymore Pcg…i kinda agree with Man with a Plan…just cos some Pakistani guys r like this, doesn’t mean they all r…and it’s definately not just Pakistani guys…and i’ve heard of girls like this too…sometimes u may have a point, but the way u present it in a thread is very negative, unfair and biased…just wot i think.