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Ahhh i was spoiled by BOTH parents. but still...nothing like being spoiled by daddy. :)
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Aww, cute thread :). Makes me happy for you, TLK and Niksik.
No experience in this area but it seems like it will be best for you to follow the rules set by Niksik. And then spoil them within rules. Or have special Daddy-loves-you-this-much-days, where most of the rules have been loosened up with mommy's explicit permission, in front of the kids. Obviously, the danger might be that the kiddies might come to like daddy more than mommy.
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in my home Im the more level head one hubby on the other hand is just there spoiling them and letting them get away with mischief, the reason for this I think is because Im at home with them all day ,so I get all the annoying and demanding part from the kids so now I know how to handle them on a firmer basis,hubby is at work most of the time so when hes home he pampers them more ,of course sometimes when they get really naughty and he scols them them who else do they come running by,of course mummy.
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Imagine if you only had one daughter........then you will know how I feel.
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I can imagine Muzna. Marya was three and a half when Sara was born. Neither I nor Niks was sure if we could ever love another kid as much as we are crazy about marya, but now sara had me wrapped around her finger. Not that I love marya any less than I used to, I think I love her even more.
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Now think about those that Allah has not blessed.....and say a little prayer for them and one of gratitude for yourself......
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Good reminder Muzna.
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TLK< I know EXACTLY what you mean :(
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such a lovely thread
and whoever said it earlier on in the thread that being daddy's lil girl leads to comparing ure husband to him and no one being better than your dad
GUILTY
im glad my husband is still here by my side after all he has had to hear with my daddy this and my daddy that hehe...
i heart my daddy!