ok here is a thing of wht i heard
yeah she is educated with a professional degree... but cuz of kids she left her job temp basis... ok the argument was the husband and wife are trying to save money for somegood time to buy a house and now the husbands family who not only have a big house but also have a joint income of $150,000 which is plenty enough... and they even have a house back in thier country... so now here is wht happens his family tells him they need money of whtever he has to put in thier house for temp basis till he has his own house... they needed the money so that the interest on a mortgage will go down... so now the husbans agrees... here is where the fight begans ... that there was no way that they will retun the money right away. or maybe never. nd cuz of that the wife and himself have to dely buying their own place...
and then in the argument the husband says that to his wife
now u should think this was not a very critical matter.. not a matter of lif and death.. husband should have taught about his wife and kids.. that they need security... khudana khwasta if something happens.... wht will my kids and wife will have...
so to gain the security the wife goes to a bank and transfers the money under her kids so in this was they will have security... my question is to all the woman wht will u do in this situation? did she do a wise thing?
thats a very very selfish deed on her part. its not wise at all and if her husband did something about it then she must not blame him for she had it coming bcos of her own stupidity. its one thing to be careful and think about security...but its totally different to take rash steps without thinking about consequences. he only wants to help his family. if i were in his place, i would have done the same thing, also making sure i'll get the money back when needed. they are my family and if they need my help, i'll provide whatever i can. in no way this means i'll be neglecting my own family but what good a money in account is if i can't use it to help my family in time of need. she is saying they have 150k in income/account but who knows how true is that. she seems like a hot-headed person who would go to any extreme to have things her way...even if it means putting her own family n relationship on line.