now what

Life01 · June 30, 2017, 2:39am

Re: now what

Congratzzzzzzzz on completing 1K Nalaiq Larkiyon!

too many people involved.
too many questions.

not enough trust.

The facebook adding, deactivating, asking questions is all the fluff. When trust, mutual respect and understanding is demonstrated on both sides this wouldn’t be so challenging. Focus on building a solid foundation and if things don’t line up then you have to make a critical and mature decision. A solid foundation is created by building a similar path forward focusing on values and a vision.

If your level of interaction with the opposite gender is more conservative and you would like the SO to have a similar mindset in that regard then make those expectations clear and find someone of that nature. No one can change another person.

There’s this famous quote which I live by and it’s this: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time”. Clearly this guy is showing you who he is so there is no point in “investigating”, the signs are before you. You learn more about a person if you observe their actions as compared to their words.

Was the questioning him over Facebook a bit too much from our side ?