Re: now what
I don’t like answering questions like this because I don’t know you or the situation or the guy.
Personally I wouldn’t question anyone unless I have a good relationship with them and we trusted each other enough where we could have a dialogue instead of an interrogation. It’s just not cool with me. I don’t question people but I learn enough about them where I know who they are and then ask myself if this is something I want in my life or not.