Fish lehnga: It depends on how you feel about your curvy hips. If you want to accentuate your hips then wearing a fish lehnga will be fine, but if you want to hide the hips, then go for more of an A-line cut that flows away from your hips.
This is beautiful. You can absolutely pull this off!
Fitting kameez..No chaak...show the hips or not: The kameez can be fitted if you have it in slightly more of an A-line shape. If the kameez is clinging to your hips, it will only intensify your hips.
I look like a cow when I wear short kameez: Short kameez looks good but if you feel you look like a cow which I'm sure you don't but if you feel that way, then wear it with those capri pants. A short kameez and the capri look give a slimmer look in a weird way but it does.
Won't this make me look fat: Nope. Not at all. The anarkali look will not make you look fat. It flows away from the hips giving your hips a smaller look. Also, the band or kaam that is usually on anarkali's around the waist gives the affect of a thiner waist. It works well for the hour-glass figure.
Hope this helps!!
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