How do you handle someone who isn’t willing to let go of you but wont give you a proper answer as to whether they see you in their future or not?
I tried to make my intentions quite clear to this girl but she just wont buy it, she claims that the other guy in her life - yes there is another guy involved - is just her ‘friend’ and so am I. So I tried to tell her that we can’t be ‘just friends’, she won’t buy that either. if I don’t reply to her texts, she’ll call me, if I don’t answer her phone call she will call my female friend and cry over the phone for hours and my friend won’t ignore her call as she is the ultimate Ms. Humdard Dawa Khana and ulta she will lash out on me instead about how I’m breaking this poor girl’s heart.
Call me whatever you want but you guys were the ones that advised me to move on with my life and leave this girl behind lol, yes, this is the same person that I talked about in my previous rather embarrassing thread titled “Your Opinion?”, that is if you still remember having read it as it was overwhelmingly long and I had requested that the thread be deleted.
I know that this is probably the most childish thing that you folks might have read in a while but seriously though how on earth does one cut off with someone without being labeled a douche?
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continue ignoring her, she will get tired of her little drama/antics and give it up eventually. girls like that need a tight chittar, don't expect her to be committed to you ever.
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It isn't rocket science. Cut off all contact. Tell any of your friends whom she uses to get through to you about the situation and tell them to tell her to leave you alone if she does get in touch with them.
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I don't answer her phone call she will call my female friend and cry over the phone for hours and my friend won't ignore her call as she is the ultimate Ms. Humdard Dawa Khana and ulta she will lash out on me instead about how I'm breaking this poor girl's heart.
In addition to ignoring the girl, you also need to have a serious talk with this "friend". You need to firmly let her know that if she can not respect your decision to cut off all communication with the girl, then you will have no choice but to cut off communication with her too. So if she values your friendship, she needs to stay out of this.
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I kinda feel for you bro. I know what it feels like when a girl becomes so chipkoo, this is emotional blackmail. Tell her you're done, let her do her rona dhona but tell her you're moving on and not to attempt to contact you or your friends again.
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There really is no way to get out of this without being labeled as a douchebag by her. I think you need to cut off all contact and let her think whatever she wants.
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Call me whatever you want but you guys were the ones that advised me to move on with my life and leave this girl behind lol, yes, this is the same person that I talked about in my previous rather embarrassing thread titled "Your Opinion?", that is if you still remember having read it as it was overwhelmingly long and I had requested that the thread be deleted.
Re: Not quite sure about what I should be doing lol
continue ignoring her, she will get tired of her little drama/antics and give it up eventually. girls like that need a tight chittar, don't expect her to be committed to you ever.
haha, she doesn't see me as the kinda guy that she would want to be with, at least not anymore lol but what doesn't make sense is why then shudder at the thought losing me then? lol
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In addition to ignoring the girl, you also need to have a serious talk with this "friend". You need to firmly let her know that if she can not respect your decision to cut off all communication with the girl, then you will have no choice but to cut off communication with her too. So if she values your friendship, she needs to stay out of this.
She is a childhood friend of mine and the argument always ends on how "All guys are the same" facepalm
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There really is no way to get out of this without being labeled as a douchebag by her. I think you need to cut off all contact and let her think whatever she wants.
True but her links within my circle are way too deep, she will always be just a friend away from being able to contact me lol
Re: Not quite sure about what I should be doing lol
Call me whatever you want but you guys were the ones that advised me to move on with my life and leave this girl behind lol, yes, this is the same person that I talked about in my previous rather embarrassing thread titled "Your Opinion?", that is if you still remember having read it as it was overwhelmingly long and I had requested that the thread be deleted.
I know that this is probably the most childish thing that you folks might have read in a while but seriously though how on earth does one cut off with someone without being labeled a douche?
