not having a job

[Pakilarka]

Re: not having a job

Well, I just think by keeping job as a requirement they r actually marrying the job not the guy.... If u think the guy is rite and want to marry him job shldnt matter.

[Aish]

@Njdude

I dunt get how cud this mean that a person with job bfr marriage wudnt go through these days …

I have seen ppl getting really frustrated over not having a job and they do become very sensitive too. After spending so much time in uni not having a job when u graduate will surely hurt you…

But same guy then gets up and stabalizes himself financially… Now he has seen tough times and will be ready for them in future… The guy who always had job might go totally insane after he looses is job and even blame wife “tum hi manhoos ho”

u cant compare someonez capabilities by askin him if he has a job or not.

lol. “Tum hi manhoos ho.”

Thats mean hes the manhoos. OBVIOUSLY

[Mabrook]

Re: not having a job

these days mostly college is finished by age 22-24 so if a guy gives himself atleast 2 yrs n then marry around 24-26 even at 28 yrs wats wrong in that?n if that guy doesn't find good feet even after 2-4 yrs of finishing college he shouldn't blame girls to b materialistic. also i know guys who hav jobs but never stay at one place more than 6 months so that also is not a good sign.
as for a wife to stand by in good n bad times its a fair expectation but b4 u marry someone u hav no obligations towards them.

[Munni]

Re: not having a job

It doesnt bother me either way.

[sadzzz]

So you mean the job aspect shouldn't be so important when* seeking* proposals - and that may change at the time of the actual wedding, i.e. he shouldn't get married if he doesn't have a job?

no i meant at the time of seeking it wasnt important. but he should get his butt into gear if someone is important and get a job before doing the i do's

[bebo]

In arrange marriages parents definately look for someone who is working and earning and can provide for their daughter. In love marriages these things doesn't matter.