Re: not having a job
i won't marry if a guy won't hav a job. getting engaged to a person struggling is ok but marrying a person with no job is not very sensible in my eyes. how would u run ur house n handle ur everyday expenses? depend on his family, depend on ur family or the girl start earning herself? in all 3 cases probs will arise. tensions make relationship bitter n sometimes weak esp when the relation is so new.
whats the hurry to marry b4 a guy is well settled?
yes if he has a job n loses it right after marriage than thats Allah's will n his way to test us but not a decision that I made.