Re: Not bothered?
If the family is SUPER conservative and religion/purdah was being used as a reason for this…then it would make sense. But since the “excuse” for the guy refusing to have ANY contact with the girl is b/c he’s “very quiet” would be a major red flag for me.
** Note: Its one thing if BOTH the guy and girl refuse to have contact with one another before baat paaki/nikah whatever b/c the decision is MUTUAL. But in a situation like this where the girl/her family is ok with limited contact but the guy is refusing to have ANY (even supervised contact with elders present)…the girl and her family should really think twice. Even IF the guy’s decision on based on being conservative…that itself is a red flag b/c clearly the girl isn’t as conservative. So if the guy is so much more conservative/quiet…whatever…compared to the girl…she should consider how she’ll adjust to living with a man like that for the rest of her life.