Not bothered?

[Paheli00]

Re: Not bothered?

@Deeba1234

My cousin’s a bright girl but I get the feeling she just wants to get married asap.. She’s 24 and has gotten it into her head she’s getting ‘too old’ The girls in our family don’t tend to marry eariler than that but she’s said all her friends are either engaged, married or in serious relationships (ie on their way to getting married)..

Yea one of my best friends felt/said the same thing when she was 26. Heck she actually married a guy she “dated” for a few months (Pakistani Muslim) and was convinced he was “the one” despite there being major red flags. Today, she’s divorced with 3 kids.

Question: Is her family planning on saying yes (ie. baat pakki) BEFORE the guy gets to Pakistan? Also, I get that the guy won’t call/text her. But is he willing to speak to her father on the phone? I have no idea how any parent can say “yes” to a guy without having 1 conversation with the guy himself (ie. the parents talking to the guy).