not attracted ..

[ZareenKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

@Ashy2010

Nahi yaaar… I believe in ‘love marriage’ ONLY according to the criteria set by our parents…

E.g. my brother has already told us that he will be marrying a girl which he selects for himself. I agreed with him but told him that we expect her to be muslim, educated, belonging to a good family etc etc. If a son/ daughter selects his/ her own spouse which is according to the criteria set by the parents, there is nothing wrong in it and if parents still object (before marriage or after marriage), its unfair on their part.

I don’t support love marriages which are mis-matched e.g. different religion, different sect etc. The criteria varies from family to family and we should follow what is expected of us by our family.

Oye mein yeh nahi keh rahi yar. I have nothing against love marriages, neither do i think arranged marriages can work for everyone. Sab kismet pe demand karta hai yar, sometimes arrange marriages can work or not work and same goes for love marriages.

Mein tu keh rahi thi k rush nahi karna chahiye whether its arranged or love marriage. You said na k love marriage mein shadi tu ho jati hai and that is what i didnt like cuz shadi ho jaana sirf koi baat nahi. Sab ki ho sakti hai but akal samjh c decision karna chahiye, i m not saying k phir bhi decision galt nahi ho sakta…ho sakta hai but ateast you know you have been careful and done your part.

Aur han i think most parents of todays time won’t have issues with their kids selecting their life partner if it was done in accordance with some set rules like religion, etc etc.