not attracted ..

[Ashy2010]

Re: not attracted ..

@ZareenKhan

Uffo! Ashy, i didn’t expect this from you :nono: i am disappointed .

I understand that all of us desire to settle down without having to go through the hassle of this rishta process however wanting marriage at cost of anything at all is not a wise idea at all. This is like saying bas ho jaey bad k bad dekhi jayegi, i dnt agree with this mindset. Infact i think this is what is causing so many divorces nowadays, parents pushing their kids or kids themself just wanting to settle down with whoever says yes and later it turns out that they were mismatched hence the arguments and fights following marriage.

Nahi yaaar… I believe in ‘love marriage’ ONLY according to the criteria set by our parents…

E.g. my brother has already told us that he will be marrying a girl which he selects for himself. I agreed with him but told him that we expect her to be muslim, educated, belonging to a good family etc etc. If a son/ daughter selects his/ her own spouse which is according to the criteria set by the parents, there is nothing wrong in it and if parents still object (before marriage or after marriage), its unfair on their part.

I don’t support love marriages which are mis-matched e.g. different religion, different sect etc. The criteria varies from family to family and we should follow what is expected of us by our family.

A guy/ girl selecting his/ her own spouse should keep it in his/her mind that if their parents would have met the guy/ girl on their own, they should have liked him/her. On the other hand, the parents should respect that their children has followed their criteria and should approve of their choice.