Re: not attracted ..
I used to think the same inspi… but few of the families who have been looking for their sons did share their experiences and told that they were not able to make decisions because of the presence of 1-2 factors on which they had to compromise. If the girl was pretty, she was not qualified as they desired. If she was very well qualified, they didn’t like something about the family.
And when the guys families finally like some girl (because she is PERFECT for them), the girl rejected them because she didn’t like the guy.
But yeah right. If the guys and their families learn to compromise, they will be marrying girls who are rejected on small reasons. Girls like you and me.