What women my age find amazing about men our age, a little younger or a little older and bachelor are the following:
- These men can never ever call me by my name! Its amazing.
- All of them realize that they have or will have many opportunities to make a woman feel silly. No body from them ever care to notice, that if a woman responds.. it is to test the actual presence of their silliness.
- How about a date? Coming to a date, they still have the guts to ask, “Is it a date?”. I’m so sorry, dear. No it is not, I end up saying.
- If someone thinks that a female is acting out of the ordinary, guys have lost their values already. They cannot imagine women expressing themselves.
- no permanence in their own sense of what they want. Some times they are so nice, and at other times, I can see through the empty egoistic claims of “I am cool as a cucumber, for being a bachelor.” Alright. Fair enough. I won’t lose my life for you, either!
- Talk about justice, the world and its problems, social ills, even state your own opinions as a woman on women’s rights and you’ve turned them ‘off’ and ‘down’.
- They start out with this convenience assumption that they can make friends with me with a hope of checking me out and then letting me go, as if I have no judgmental parameters to judge them by at my end.
- There is this strange surety about every encounter with this type of men, they are recluse in the end. They can never say goodbye. They are not even half of the man they claim to be. The end of the ‘friendship’ is so exciting. They think to themselves, that perhaps all their boats are not burnt by being so clever.
- A whole lot of growing up has to be done by them, yet, I guess.
- May men know that they can be, for once, just good friends to fellow females and not any intimate affair all the time.
chota larka !