Not a wedding-we're marking our wedding!

Yeah was thinking of placing small votive candles amongst some bangles. Will be decorating small votive candles with mendhi (brushed with varnish to help them not dry out).

I know its our anniversary but would we be expected to give presents to others?! Like those goodie bags that are all the rage and you get given them as fancy frock do's?!

I've had a brainwave-will make dahi baray and possibly aloo chaat and will put them into small cups for bitesize portions. I'm getting so excited and it's like months away!!

I have to plan everything way in advance (well as much as I can) or else I forget stuff and it never goes to plan.