In the beginning of marriage, how are healthy straight men when they first get married when it comes to “it”, suhaag raat, honeymoon. What’s normal? I’m trying to be as delicate as possible because i want the modjis to be happy.
I never had straight male friends or I never dated in college. Give it to me straight…no pun intended.
Excited and happy. The technique may not be perfect but what matters is how much effort they want to put into making it a pleasureable experience for both.
Excited and happy. The technique may not be perfect but what matters is how much effort they want to put into making it a pleasureable experience for both.
They would want it very badly correct? It's not like they would avoid it at all costs? Like sleep the whole time or never want it? I am talking about the act that straight people do. Since there are the others that also have the word "sex" in them but doing them would not result in pregnancy. The one that women would take contraceptive pills for.
They would want it very badly correct? It's not like they would avoid it at all costs? Like sleep the whole time or never want it?
Nothing is "normal" when is comes to a sexual relationship. Every man (and woman) is different. There are men who may crave sex 5x/week and there are men who may crave it 1x/week, and there are others who may be perfectly happy doing it 1x/month. Things like stress, resentment/anger from fights/family drama, medical conditions (that may not have been diagnosed), any medications they're taking, hormone imbalance can also can effect a person's sex drive. If you google "low sex drive" or something like that……you'll find tons of info. on it. Although rare, there are some people out there who are asexual and simply don't crave it at all. Again….Google is your friend when it comes to all this.
Bottom line is that whatever works for a couple is "normal" for them. So if you have an issue with the number of times your husband is initiating sex and/or he doesn't seem interested AT ALL……and you can't think of a reason such as stress/medical condition that could cause it….simply talk to him see what's going on, and let him know that you're unhappy with his lack of interest.
Just don't think porn is reality. You don't need previous relationships or anything to find another person sexually attractive. Emotional connection makes it so much better as well.
I know it's embarrassing, but discuss it with your partner.
Just don't think porn is reality. You don't need previous relationships or anything to find another person sexually attractive. Emotional connection makes it so much better as well.
I know it's embarrassing, but discuss it with your partner.
Good point, porn isn't reality. You need ask your partner. Find out what/she likes. Tell them what you like, if you're gonna do the dirty anyway then there's not much reason to be embarrassed. Sure, it'll be a little embarrassing at first but you've got to get over that.