no win situation

do u ever feel as if life is a no win situation? As in you know and accept all the wrong/bad things that happen in your life to such a point that u feel as if no matter what u do or say to change somethings always stay the same?

Lately iv decided to accept this no win situation thing, i know its a cop out but no matter what i seem to do in life everything always stays the same, nobody ever changes in their way of thinking or doing.

Is it wrong to accept your life for what it is?

Im so sick or fighting for what i believe to be right, in a sense im so sick of wanting to live my life my way, im not giving up (i dnt think) but all the fighting and wanting to do as i please in my life is so not worth the hassle, cos no matter what i or anyone else does life is always the same.

Is this giving up hope? how do u give up hope if you dnt already have any? is not having any hope a bad thing?

dont worry, my life is a constant no win situation :D

but do u accept it as being a no win situation? is it right to accept the no win situation

I feel as if accepting it is going to make me weak, it was hard to get to where i am right now im life, now i feel as if square 1 was a better place to be.... all that effort, was it wasted?

hmm nai its not right to accept if u r doing something wrong, like u can always improve urself, we’re sposed to as Muslims

but in my case things just seem to be getting worse

it was hard to get to where i am right now im life, now i feel as if square 1 was a better place to be… all that effort, was it wasted?

i think so too abt myself :bummer:

erm..im not doing anything wrong...

what i mean is, is it right to accept that others are doing wrong by u and to u, do i accept that? as i have given up hope of them doing right?

the more i write the more less sense im making!

this is a classic no win situation!!

Double Em you’re depressing me :hoonh:

There is always a way out there to have a brighter tomorrow, you just need to search a way to get it…

i know theres a “way out” the trouble is iv found it and tired it but nothings changed and i think iv finally understood that nothing can change, no matter how much i need something in my life to happen it never does therefore life being a no win situation.

im not trying to depress anyone, in fact im glad im realising now before i carry on wasting my time and effort trying to change things which are really out of my control. At the end of the day everything happens for a reason and maybe just maybe if i let Allah do all the changing it may just happen.

Well, im glad iv sorted out my dilemma of the day! i can go eat now!

Thanks Irem and Mad_Scientist :flower2:

Miss Mo yes I suppose we all feel that way sometimes.But things eventually do get better.

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