imtiz
August 4, 2010, 1:33pm
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Imtiz man all I can tell you is that more than the maid or any other thing he is doing for her his wife needs his attention and respect. Trust me these monetary things don’t mean much in the long run. Tell the guy to take try to make an effort to be better to his wife by doing small little things like take her out for dinner once in a week and or get her flowers or something on the way back from work. Keep this going on for a couple of weeks and she will notice and probably ask him why the sudden change and he can just tell her that he didn’t think he was apprieicating enoguh and now he wants to … and after a couple of weeks he can ask for small little things like before going to work that oh i’m gonna be back early and i feel like eating this can you please make it for me and trust me she will.
The problem with these kind of issues is that no one wants to take the first step because they thing they have nto done anything wrong to actually make an effort to make things right. Someone has to do it so why not your friend.
+1
Think you are spot on with that, right now it seems that they are stuck in that mode where they do not want to do that extra **bit **to improve things…
I sure will try to make him understand that…
Thanks!!!