No to Jahez (Dowry from wife)= No to Bari/Vari/Bride Gold (Dowry from Husband)

Re: No to Jahez (Dowry from wife)= No to Bari/Vari/Bride Gold (Dowry from Husband)

so taking the argument to its natural conclusion - how much gold is needed to be gifted to a smart one so that the guy doesn’t have to cook, clean, and take care of his own kids?