No to Jahez (Dowry from wife)= No to Bari/Vari/Bride Gold (Dowry from Husband)

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Re: No to Jahez (Dowry from wife)= No to Bari/Vari/Bride Gold (Dowry from Husband)

@StrangeOne

In the days when a woman was not allowed to study or find work, gold was a security so in case of a tragedy the woman wouldn’t be completely helpless and destitute. For an illiterate woman it would be a necessity but you’re right for a literate one gold just takes up place in the bank lockers and not a necessity at all.

Oh how far a man will go to justify his stingy behavior. Even if she is educated, she is putting in time and effort in taking care of your kids, all of which she is not paid for.

So if she wants some gold jewelry, why would you NOT buy it for her, especially if you can afford it?

So poor illiterate girls get gold, but the smart ones - too bad, you’re on your own? Ok fine, then you guys can cook, clean, and take care of your own kids. :k: