typical desi scenario: a guy and a girl are dating, the girl gets a purposal from chache nazir dey flanney flanney. the girl goes and tells the guy, he tells her a lot of things but one thing that girl is stuck at is ‘keep your options open’ She is mad at the fact that he 's not interested in marrying her.
I tried helping but didn’t work. Can someone please put it in good words and help this poor soul.
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perhaps you can "tell" the girl all you like, but she wont listen......... untill her heart is broken. Chacha Nazir's wotsits are married and she find an invite on the doormat inviting her to her boyfriends wedding to Chacha Nazir's wotsits sister.
You've got to let her live her life how she see's fit, if she doesnt want to listen to then fine.... just be there when it all falls apart.
and dont ever say "I told you so"
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what does this mean?
The boyfriend isn't interested in marrying her so she should dump him.
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Its clear the boy isnt interested in marrying her but no matter how much to tell her this she wont want to hear this. Love is deaf and blind.
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Believe it or not I have mentioned every thing said above. I did what I could!
The last thing left for me to do is print this page and let her read it.
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well print this and show it to her....i once was in her position and i didn't believe anything people told me...i thought he would change his mind and marry me so i kept declining proposal after proposal and even though i did end up getting engage to the guy we never got married because from the start his heart was never in it. he never wanted to marry me so i got my heart broken and he ended up marrying his cousin cuz thats what his family wanted.
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:::sigh:::: ..i beleve this is why dating is discouraged… it causes too much unecessary hurt and pain
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She deserves better !!!! but sometimes the only way you learn is from your mistakes... she will learn. Although it would be better that she dump him before he breaks her heart..