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Having a boy doesnt guarantee respect and all the troubles going away...jinhoon ne izzat karni hoti hai woh beti ki paidaaish bhi qabool kartey hain aur jinhoon ne nahin kerni unko chahe pota bhi de do unhoon ne izzat nahin kerni aur yehi kehna hai...tau kya huwa jo beta paida hogaya,meri betiyoon ke haan bhi pehlay betay hi huwey thay....lolz....wht a jahilaana answer...sick ppl
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When I told my khala that Ill b havng a girl she said "aww hae donon itne chote ho beta hota to bhtr tha smbhalna b asan hota"
N y is a baby boy easier to handle?
Its not abt how many boys/girls u hv ppl just makeup stupid excuses just to piss u off..like khatichic said she has boys still ppl bother her..
After me and my younger brother my parents decided to stop but ppl would still bothr them k inka ek behan ya bhai or hona chaiye do kafi nhi blabla..:/
Boys are way to hard to raise trust me.
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AH I have two kids. But if ALLAH gives me one more I will be more happy.
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Boys are way to hard to raise trust me.
how so UZ?
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how so UZ?
When they grow up they are hyper a lot more than girls, I have seen naughty girls. They are messy, they don't listen and they don't study until or unless you sit with them and yell at them. On the other hand my daughter she was nice. My friend's daughter who is same age as my son she is also naughty but seriously boys make a lot of jumps and a lot of running and a lot of mess. I don't know how to handle that I am still learning.
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When they grow up they are hyper a lot more than girls, I have seen naughty girls. They are messy, they don't listen and they don't study until or unless you sit with them and yell at them. On the other hand my daughter she was nice. My friend's daughter who is same age as my son she is also naughty but seriously boys make a lot of jumps and a lot of running and a lot of mess. I don't know how to handle that I am still learning.
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Agree
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I have 3 boys and a fostered girl elephant.
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I agree boys are harder to raise, I am raising one and just at 19 months he is soooo hyper and active. He is only calm and quiet when he is ill or when he is sleeping. He keeps leaving our hand and running off. I have seen girls they are so ready to please always.
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I don't understand how some people can blatantly say boys or girls are 'harder to raise'. Every child comes with his or her own personality! Gone are the days when boys were the hyperactive, mischievous kind and girls were the docile, gentle kind. For argument's sake, I've seen plenty of boys who like to sit in a corner and play with their toys and plenty of girls who create havoc wherever they go.
Anyways, the world has made great advances but of course us desis are still stuck in this pagan, illiterate custom of preferring boys over girls. Both girls and boys are a blessing and should be dearly cherished. All those illiterate aunties that keep wanting a son should realize that girls have already outnumbered boys in colleges so they might as well count on their daughter to support them instead of their son!
I guess these people are not aware of the famous proverb "A daughter is a daughter for life, a son is a son till he gets a wife". No, that doesn't mean the wife is evil. Men are just wired differently and once they have a family of their own, their focus changes to providing for the wife and their kids. Of course they love their parents just as much as a daughter would but they might not be as in tune to their parents' needs like a daughter is which is why I know tons of white women who are desperate to have a daughter after having 2 or 3 boys.
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^cherryontop, I guess each one of us speaks from experience. I have seen close relatives raising girls and I am raising a boy and I notice differences. True that each child is different but we were just speaking generally.
And you are right abt our culture being stuck in preferring boys over girls.
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^ so true. after i found out i was having a girl (my first- and the first grandchild) a close relative said "koi baat nahi. inshallah Allah beta bhi de ga"
:/
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11 kids. Minimum. I’ll have my own football team. 
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What ever Allahs Wishes
-DP
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What ever Allahs Wishes
-DP
Ameen to that brother.
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^CEO1 : All kids from one wife ?
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I don't understand how some people can blatantly say boys or girls are 'harder to raise'. Every child comes with his or her own personality! Gone are the days when boys were the hyperactive, mischievous kind and girls were the docile, gentle kind. For argument's sake, I've seen plenty of boys who like to sit in a corner and play with their toys and plenty of girls who create havoc wherever they go
Hahahaaa!!!...so true! My mamoo's daughter "Zoha" is the same age as my twins (6yrs old) and they are scared of her!!! Har ghar ki daawat main maar kaakay aatay hain ussay!! Even my 8 yr old will say, "Mama, Zoha is mean! Do we have to go there??". As my husband says... "saalay naak kutwaakay aatay hain" LMAO!!!
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^Jr. also used to get beaten up by his cousin (6 month older than him) and her name is Zo__ (name close to your cousin's name)
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I have 3 boys and a fostered girl elephant.
wow 3 boys mashaAllah u r very brave!!
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we want 2 kids but will see what Allah has planned for us:)
my husband also agrees with me as we think its better to raise 2 children according to our "hesiyat" than raising a tubber n not fulfilling their needs...
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^ its just that they're so friggin' cute sometimes you just want to have the whole tubbar so you have someone to cuddle for life :p