No. of kids to have

[SaadiaB]

Re: No. of kids to have

@automne77

I love your answer NJ… how do you answer ppl who constantly feel the need to comment to you about having more kids. Do you flat out tell them I don’t want anymore, or the shortage of time and so on. OR do you just keep quiet and say if Allah wants I will have more.

I knew a lady who had 3 kids herself (2 boys 1 girl) and she was telling another mutual friend (3 girls) come on buckle up and have another one while both of them are done having kids. Drove me mad but I kept quiet, 3 girls aren’t good enough so keep on having kids till you have a boy… while for you it is enough coz you have boys and a girl.

No one says this to women who have 2 boys to have more kids, in our culture it is just women with 2 or more girls who ppl insist on having more kids.

Oh boy, I so agree!!

I hear it with one ear and it goes out with the other. I try not to take them seriously.

I have 3 girls and I am struggling to give the quality of time to each. I just hired a maid to come weekly so that I have more time for them and myself.

For me I allways wanted 2, we have 3 mA so its s plus plus, we are happy AH.

For me it bas as said I will not do justice to my other girls if I go ahead and have more.

My question is why is a boy so important, why ?!