NO- Not another time!!

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I just dont like my Mugs being used by others and now she and her hubby have even started drinking tea in our mugs!! :smack:

I have ordinary Mugs for guests too but it has always been my habit that I keep my Special Mug for Tea or coffee, separately..!! and thats same for my Hubby, this time I bought an exclusive pair for us and we drink Tea/ Coffee in it. She has her own cups too and even my ordinary mugs are there too…but dont know maybe she is attracted to my Mugs that the couple have started using them!! I just cant tolerate it and I am sick of her habits now!! Pissed off!! Just tell me what to do or I will throw them on floor.. bohat ghussa aa raha hay mujhay iswaqt!!

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watch out! she has evil plans to take over any and everything that is remotely yours! :cb: i think she is acting on a plan! :smiley:

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can you please live separately?

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KKF :emmy:

I wish, at the moment :frowning:

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Hide your mugs under a takya

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keep your mugs in your room, only taken out when you want to drink. masla hal. next shikayat

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i dont know why you are even living with another couple when you havent laid down boundaries. there is simply no way to share one kitchen as two. just move to your own place.

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lol :omg:

thats what I have thought, but I will start it to put them first in the cabinet!! :hmmm:

o, excuse me!! they are supposed to leave for THEIR own place.. thats our place :emmy:

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how come? i thought you are both renting the place?

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btw, on a serious note, are you comfortable living with another couple? i mean her hubby must be home at times when you may even be alone in the house? how does that sit with you? why can't you live on your own with your hubby. apart from what i hear from you about their inconsiderate behaviour, isn't it a bit too close for comfort?

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yea we are but my hubby has been living here for last 2 years and they just moved.. so hamara haqq zada hay :snooty:

No, our hubbies almost come back at the same time.. the prob is house is too near to my hubby’s work place and he really doesnt want to leave the place!! :frowning:

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but your husband and her's husband sharing rent, correct.

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just lay down some ground rules......

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:smilestar: u meri side lo :emmy:

Muzna where have you been, I heard you have been dealing with this tenant thing for a long time and you can suggest best.. tell me how this Ground Rules should be set and what they should be :frowning:

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you cant lay down any ground rules when you are just another tenant. same exact rights as the other tenant.

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How does one tenant have more 'haq' than another tenant.

But the way I see it, you all live in the house together, i'm sure you share a few things. Whats sharing mugs going to do?

Either way, as already said, if it bothers you THAT much - voice your concerns.

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just another tenant never means they start using our belongings :naraz: she is already very messy but now I have somehow compromised over that, its just me who keeps on cleaning the entire house.. but now this!! :bummer: zulum ki intiha nahin??

:hmmm:

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Just tell her politely to not use your mugs, that's it.

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^I wish I had that guts :(

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well she has a right to keep the space she rents as messy as she wants. it is that simple pal. you like it clean, shes ok with messy. problem is yours.