TOTALLY AGREE!!! I’ve noticed that myself. It’s CRAZY how people just assume that you’re miserable because you haven’t graduated, or gotten married, or landed a job, or had a baby according to THEIR time schedule! It’s absurd really. It’s even kinda funny. You, on the other other hand, MIGHT BE PERFECTLY HAPPY AND CONTENT with your life…and they assume that you’re miserable. And they give you a pitying look and say “Aaw…don’t worry…” And this can make you feel self-conscious for no reason at all. Seriously, people can be so obtuse.
You’d think that they’d have enough to deal with in their own lives…that they wouldn’t have the “TIME” to go around asking others about their time schedules, lol.
I don’t even go around asking my relatives, cousins for example, when they’re getting married, or when they’re going to have a baby, or why this and that didn’t happen in their life. It can be annoying. Just ignore and find some humor in it.